In this episode of Almost Oblivious, we break the silence on a form of control that often goes unseen—financial abuse. This pervasive yet often overlooked aspect of domestic violence affects victims in ways that can keep them trapped in unhealthy relationships.

Host, Autumn Baker, will explore:

• The many forms financial abuse can take, from restricting access to money to sabotaging employment.

• How financial control undermines independence and self-worth.

• Practical steps for regaining financial independence and securing a path to freedom.

This episode also features real-world strategies, resources, and encouragement for anyone feeling trapped by financial control. Together, we’ll uncover how to reclaim autonomy, one step at a time.

Don’t forget to share this episode to help others who may be silently struggling. Together, we can empower survivors to find their voice and take back control. 💜

In this episode of Almost Oblivious, we dive into the transformative power of setting boundaries. Boundaries are essential to self-care, but knowing when and how to set them isn’t always easy. Join host Autumn Baker as she explains how to recognize the need for boundaries, practical steps to set them, and tips for handling pushback from others.

We’ll also explore the delicate balance between protecting your peace and understanding when family and friends come from a place of genuine care. Boundaries aren’t about shutting people out but about creating space for healthier, more respectful relationships.

If you’ve ever struggled with saying no, felt drained by certain interactions, or wondered how to communicate your needs effectively, this episode is for you. Tune in to learn how to reclaim your energy, build stronger connections, and live a life aligned with your values.

As we ring in the New Year, this special episode focuses on hope, resilience, and transformation. Join host Autumn Baker as she shares strategies to prepare for a brighter future and shift from a victim mindset to a survivor’s perspective.

Discover the power of reframing your thoughts, setting realistic goals, and making small but meaningful changes that can lead to freedom and healing. Learn how even simple changes in vocabulary—like turning "What if I can't?" into "Even if I can't, I can still…"—can help create a positive mindset and open the door to new possibilities.

Whether you’re taking your first steps toward change or need a dose of encouragement, this episode is your guide to starting 2025 with strength and purpose.

Tune in and take the first step toward rewriting your story. ✨

This Christmas Eve, join me for a more uplifting episode dedicated to those seeking hope and freedom this holiday season. Host Autumn Baker discusses the critical role of self-care and education in preparing to leave an abusive relationship. From practical tips on building a safety plan to emotional and physical self-care strategies, this episode is packed with tools to help survivors reclaim their lives.

Whether you're taking the first step or supporting someone on their journey, this episode offers guidance, compassion, and a reminder that brighter days are ahead.

Happy Holidays Obliviates!

In this first installment of our new series, we shine a light on the challenges surrounding domestic violence and sexual assault in the military. I am joined by my husband, Zack, a five-year Army veteran, as they delve into the unique obstacles survivors face in a military environment. From cultural barriers to systemic gaps in support, Zack shares his insights, experiences, and hopes for change within the armed forces.

Join us for an honest and eye-opening conversation that seeks to break the silence and bring awareness to this critical issue. Remember, if interested in talking on this topic, please reach out to us!

The holiday season is often seen as a time of joy, but for many survivors of domestic violence, it can be a season of increased stress, isolation, and danger. In this episode of Almost Oblivious, we explore why domestic violence often escalates during the holidays, the unique challenges survivors face, and how faith, community, and practical resources can provide support. Whether you’re a survivor or an ally, this episode offers insights and encouragement to navigate this challenging time.

In this episode of Almost Oblivious, we shine a light on the subtle and overt warning signs of domestic abuse. From patterns of control and manipulation to the dangers of love bombing and isolation, we uncover the behaviors that often go unnoticed until it's too late. Whether you're navigating a challenging relationship or supporting someone who might be, this 20-minute deep dive will help you recognize the signs and take action.

In Episode 7, we dive into the often unknown concept of reactive abuse. This episode explores what it is, why it happens, and how abusers manipulate these situations to deflect blame onto their victims. Join us as we shed light on the emotional toll it takes and provide insights into recognizing and breaking free from this destructive cycle. Together, we continue to break the silence on domestic violence.

In the conclusion of our two-part exploration of trauma bonding, we dive deeper into the emotional and psychological complexities that keep survivors tied to abusive relationships. We unpack the intricate cycle of manipulation, the devastating effects of gaslighting, and the layered impact of repeated love bombing. This episode provides insights into breaking free from the toxic bonds and offers hope for those seeking to reclaim their lives. Whether you're a survivor, a supporter, or someone wanting to learn more, this episode sheds light on one of the most challenging aspects of abuse.